Saturday, December 29, 2012

New Videos on the MASK YouTube Channel

Watch our most recent PSA (submission for the Somerset Someys - highlighting nonprofit - The Resource Center of Somerset)



Even complete strangers can do their part, in the most simple ways, to help prevent relationship abuse. This PSA is about bystander intervention - a girl was able to recognize the abuse and provide the victim resources without getting directly involved in any conflict.  

Thank you!

Watch other videos on our YouTube channel: HERE

Wednesday, November 28, 2012

Thursday, October 25, 2012

Tuesday, October 30th is Wear Purple Day !


To raise awareness about Domestic Violence, please wear PURPLE.


Pass it on!  Mention it in Social Media, at school, at work.


October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month.


Say NO MORE to Relationship Abuse!

Saturday, September 29, 2012

Schools Don't See Teen Dating Violence as a Priority


Despite research showing up to a third of U.S. teens experience dating violence, a new study finds a majority of high schools don't have procedures or trained staff to deal with the issue.

According to the report published in the journal Pediatrics, some 70 percent of U.S. high school counselors have not received any formal training in teen dating violence.

That's a big problem, the study's lead author said. 
The majority of counselors said their students are taught about healthy relationships and are told to report dating violence if it occurs.Less than half, however, said their schools taught students about dating violence or had information on the topic posted around the school for students if they needed it.

As for protocols, about 81 percent of the counselors said their schools did not have one in place to deal with a dating violence incident. And only about 16 percent said their schools had talked about creating procedures for handling an incident or had plans to implement them.Nearly all counselors - 90 percent - said their schools had not provided training related to adolescent dating violence to staff within the past two years.

To assess the counselors' own knowledge of the topic, the researchers asked them a series of questions about dating violence, about half of which were answered correctly, on average.Nonetheless, 61 percent of the counselors said they had helped a teen who had experienced dating violence in the last two years.

Paige Smith, director of the Center for Women's Health and Wellness at the University of North Carolina at Greensboro, said she thinks the results are typical for professionals."You can do this type of survey with nurses and coaches and find very similar results," said Smith, who was not involved in the new study.

School administrators should periodically assess the extent of dating violence in their schools and come up with strategies for dealing with it. Administrators should also familiarize themselves and their staffs with relevant state laws on dating violence and minor consent.

National organizations need to start reaching out to members and start developing policies and protocols, said Khubchandani, who added that there are only limited materials out there now for schools and counselors.
(excerpt from Fox.com/Reuters)


Saturday, September 22, 2012


One in Three Victims of Teen Dating Violence Has Had More Than One Abuser

ScienceDaily (Sep. 18, 2012) — More than one-third of young adults who reported being victims of dating violence as teenagers had two or more abusive partners, a new study suggests.

Overall, nearly two-thirds of both men and women reported some type of abuse during their teenage years, which falls in line with other studies.The study involved 271 college students who recalled dating violence -- including physical, sexual and psychological abuse -- from ages 13 to 19.
But it was surprising how many teen victims had two or more abusive partners, said Amy Bonomi, lead author of the study and associate professor of human development and family science at Ohio State University.
"For about one in three teens who were abused, it wasn't just one bad boyfriend or girlfriend. It may have been at least the start of a trend," Bonomi said.
The same patterns were not seen in similar population-based studies of adults, who tend to report abuse by a single partner, she said.
Well more than half of all teen victims reported multiple occurrences of abuse, with roughly 15 percent reporting 20 or more instances of some types of abuse.
"For most teens, dating violence is rarely reported as an isolated incident," said Bonomi, who is also an affiliate with the Group Health Research Institute in Seattle.
The study appears online in the journal BMC Public Health.
Among both males and females, psychological abuse -- such as yelling, swearing, insults, controlling behavior, put-downs and name-calling -- was the most common type of abuse.
One argument that violence researchers often hear is that behaviors like name-calling and insults aren't serious enough to be called abuse. But that's not true, Bonomi said.
"Studies in adults have shown that psychological abuse alone can be damaging to health," she said. She is currently studying whether the same is true for adolescents.
For this study, 271 students aged 21 and under at Ohio State completed a web-based survey about their dating history between ages 13 and 19.
The researchers used a method similar to what is called the timeline follow-back interview, which has been extensively used by researchers to study at-risk behavior such as substance abuse and risky sexual practices. However, this is the first time this type of interview technique has been used to study teen dating violence.
The technique involves asking participants to remember their most recent dating partner and asks questions about that relationship, and then works backward to the previous two relationships. This technique uses memory prompts, such as asking participants to remember the year they were in high school to facilitate recall of the age when a relationship began and ended.
The result showing that more than one-third of teen victims had more than one abusive partner was unexpected, Bonomi said.
"Our studies of adults showed that most women and men had only one abusive partner, so it was startling to find the number of teens who had two or more," she said.
For example, about 43 percent of women said two or more partners had pressured them into sex during their teenage years. About 60 percent of men said they had two or more partners who had sent unwanted calls or text messages.
Psychological abuse was the most common type of abuse reported in the study. The category of "yelling, swearing and insults" was the most frequently reported type of psychological abuse, noted by 43 percent of female victims and 44 percent of males.
Nearly 25 percent of females experienced sexual pressure due to a partner's persistent begging, compared to 11 percent of males. Fewer than 5 percent of women said they were hit or physically harmed, compared to 13 percent of men.
Some types of dating violence tended to occur at earlier ages than others, the study found. For females reporting dating violence, controlling behavior tended to occur early, with 44 percent reporting it between the ages of 13 and 15. For males, 13 to 15 was the most common age range for the first occurrence of put-downs and name-calling (60 percent).
Pressure to have sex was more likely to start at later ages, from 16 to 17 for women.
Bonomi said it was significant that college students were reporting this level of abuse as teens.
"There's a common belief in our society that dating violence only affects low-income and disadvantaged teens. But these results show that even relatively privileged kids, who are on their way to college, can be victims."
The results also call for better education in our elementary schools.
"Many of these kids are getting in relationships early, by the age of 13," Bonomi said. "We need to help them learn about healthy relationships and how to set sexual boundaries. It shouldn't just be one class session -- it needs to be a routine discussion in school."

Monday, August 6, 2012

JB song "Boyfriend" remake by a fan.  Can you recognize the signs of abuse?

Monday, July 30, 2012


‘Bath salts’ ban could curb use of some legal drugs linked to violent behavior, but not all


WASHINGTON — People are inventing so many new ways to get high that lawmakers can’t seem to keep up.
Over the past two years, the U.S. has seen a surge in the use of synthetic drugs made of legal chemicals that mimic the dangerous effects of cocaine, amphetamines and other illegal stimulants.

President Barack Obama signed a bill into law earlier this month that bans the sale, production and possession of more than two dozen of the most common bath salt drugs. But health professionals say lawmakers cannot keep pace with bath salt producers, who constantly adjust their chemical formulations to come up with new synthetic drugs that aren’t covered by new laws. Experts who have studied the problem estimate there are more than 100 different bath salt chemicals in circulation.
“The moment you start to regulate one of them, they’ll come out with a variant that sometimes is even more potent,” said Dr. Nora Volkow, director of the National Institute on Drug Abuse.
There are no back alleys or crack houses in America’s latest drug epidemic. The problem involves potent substances that amateur chemists make, package and sell in stores under brands like “Ivory Wave,” ‘’Vanilla Sky” and “Bliss” for as little as $15. Emergencies related to the drugs have surged: The American Association of Poison Control Centers received more than 6,100 calls about bath salt drugs in 2011 — up from just 304 the year before — and more than 1,700 calls in the first half of 2012.
The problem for lawmakers is that it’s difficult to crack down on the drugs. U.S. laws prohibit the sale or possession of all substances that mimic illegal drugs, but only if federal prosecutors can show that they are intended for human use. People who make bath salts and similar drugs work around this by printing “not for human consumption” on virtually every packet.
Barbara Carreno, a spokeswoman for the Drug Enforcement Agency, said the intended use for bath salts is clear.“Everyone knows these are drugs to get high, including the sellers,” she said.
Many states have banned some of the most common bath salts, which are typically sold by small businesses like convenience stores, tobacco shops and adult book stores. For instance, West Virginia legislators banned the bath salt drug MDPV last year, making it a misdemeanor to sell, buy or possess the synthetic drug. Conviction means up to six months in jail and a $1,000 fine.

THE SPREAD
The most common bath salt drugs, like MDPV and mephedrone, were first developed in pharmaceutical research laboratories, though they were never approved for medical use. During the last decade they became popular as party drugs at European raves and dance clubs. As law enforcement began cracking down on the problem there, the drugs spread across the Atlantic Ocean.
The widespread availability of the drugs in stores is equally alluring for drug users: they can get a cheap high similar to that of illegal drugs by walking to a corner store.
The most dangerous synthetic drugs are stimulants that affect levels of both dopamine and serotonin, brain chemicals that affect mood and perception. Users, who typically smoke or snort the powder-based drugs, may experience a surge in energy, fever and delusions of invincibility and therefore are likely to be linked to violent behavior.


International Award !


Students’ PSA Video Wins Telly Award

Premiere Media and M.A.S.K. Theater from Montgomery High School teamed to produce a Public Service Announcement video to warn young people about the Signs of Abuse
HILLSBOROUGH, NJ – July, 2012 – The Telly Awards has named Premiere Media as a Bronze winner in the 33rd Annual Telly Awards for their piece titled Know the Signs of Abuse.  With nearly 11,000 entries from all 50 states and numerous countries, this is truly an honor.
In August, 2011, students from Montgomery High School formed a group called M.A.S.K. Theater (Montgomery Advocates for Solidarity and Kindness.)  One of the first projects they worked on was creating a Public Service Announcement (PSA) to enter in a contest sponsored by Leadership Somerset.  The video was a message to students, “Know the Signs of Abuse” and was intended to help the Resource Center of Somerset reach young people of dating age to help them avoid becoming involved in an abusive relationship.  The group worked closely with the Resource Center of Somerset to promote the message.
The video won the Grand Prize at the 2011 Somey Awards presented by Allstate New Jersey Insurance, Advanced Solar Products, Ethicon, Raritan Valley Coummunity College and The Somerset Patriots.  Their original video was recorded by using a cell phone video cam.  When word came that the winning video was going to be premiered on the jumbo screen at TD Bank Ballpark at a Somerset Patriots home game, Resource Center Director of Marketing and Public Relations Anthony Winchatz reached out to Caz Bielen of Premiere Media to see if the short video could be redone in high definition.  Caz was quite excited to help.  Part of his personal mission is to use his communication talents to help others through community service.
Know the Signs of Abuse won a 2012 Bronze Award in the Non-Broadcast Productions – Social Issues category.  This is the third Telly Award presented to Premiere Media.  Caz previously won a Silver and a Bronze Award in 2006 and 2008.
The Telly Awards was founded in 1979 and is the premier award honoring outstanding local, regional, and cable TV commercials and programs, the finest video and film productions, and online commercials, video and films.  Winners represent the best work of the most respected advertising agencies, production companies, television stations, cable operators, and corporate video departments in the world.
A prestigious judging panel of over 500 accomplished industry professionals, each a past winner of a Silver Telly and a member of The Silver Telly Council, judged the competition, upholding the historical standard of excellence that Telly represents.  The Silver Council evaluated entries to recognize distinction in creative work – entries do not compete against each other – rather entries are judged against a high standard of merit.  Less than 10% of entries are chosen as Winners of the Silver Telly, our highest honor.  Approximately 25% of entries are chosen as Winners of the Bronze Telly.
The award winning video can be seen on

Bail set at $300K for Jersey City man accused of pushing ex-girlfriend and their baby out a window



The 20-year-old ex-girlfriend, their child, and the woman's 21-year-old female friend remain in critical condition as a result of the alleged attack at 6:55 a.m. July 27 inside Bruno's former Rutgers Avenue apartment.
The ex-girlfriend was stabbed multiple times and her friend was stabbed numerous times in the face with a kitchen knife and meat cleaver, the complaint says. The mother landed on the child after the fall, officials said.
Two women, baby injured in domestic violence incident
EnlargeFrederico Bruno, 19, is being sought by police as a suspect in today's domestic violence incident in Jersey City that left two women and one baby in critical condition.Two women, baby injured in domestic violence incident gallery (11 photos)
A manhunt led to Bruno's arrest Friday night in Belleville after he was found hiding in a refrigerator in a vacant apartment in Belleville based on a tip from family members, authorities said.
Police believe Bruno let himself into his former apartment with his keys and was hiding when the women and child returned in the morning, Police Chief Tom Comey said at a press conference Friday afternoon on Journal Square.
The former girlfriend was in a rear room with her son when she heard her friend scream during Bruno's attack, and when she attempted to call police, he turned his attack on her, Comey said.
While the mother was holding the child, Bruno pushed both into an air conditioner with such force that the air conditioner, mother and child went through the window and fell into the backyard, Comey said. Bruno then climbed down the fire escape, found a bar stool and beat his former girlfriend with it before fleeing, the complaint says.
The chief said Bruno has had a number of prior run-ins with police, and noted that police had been to the apartment multiple times in the past several weeks. Bruno is charged with two counts of aggravated assault but additional charges are expected, officials said. On Sunday Jersey City police said attempted murder charges are likely.

President Barack Obama and Vice President Joe Biden join with Eli Manning, Jeremy Lin, Jimmy Rollins, Evan Longoria, David Beckham, Joe Torre and Andy Katz in this PSA to raise awareness about dating violence. Despite the significant progress made in reducing violence against women, young women continue to face the highest rates of dating violence and sexual assault. In the last year, one in 10 teens has reported being physically hurt on purpose by a boyfriend or girlfriend. One in five young women has been sexually assaulted while in college. In response to these alarming statistics, Vice President Biden launched the 1is2many campaign last year. This campaign focuses his longstanding commitment to reducing violence against women specifically on teens and young women ages 16-24. By targeting the importance of changing attitudes that lead to violence, and educating the public on the realities of abuse, this Administration is leading the way to stop violence against women before it begins.http://www.whitehouse.gov/1is2many





Friday, June 15, 2012

Achieve the Impossible!

Hello Montgomery! You are all cramming in your last hours of study before the last two days of finals next Monday and Tuesday. Then just a half day of school Wednesday and you're FREE.


Now if you're going to start a summer romance, be sure to be safe. Have lots of carefree fun and enjoy yourselves, FLIRT IT UP! ;)


MASK Theater is going to be working our booties off to prepare for next year. We are bumping up all our efforts to make next year (Senior year for lots of our members) a memorable one. 


It should be noted that a few minutes ago, Nik Wallenda finished crossing the Niagara Falls on a tight rope the width of three pennies. This man has made history, and I just wanted to quote him: he said no matter how crazy your dreams are, follow them. His was to walk across a string above a roaring waterfall, and he did it. 


When you set your mind to something, you can reach your goals. Nothing is unattainable. Nothing is impossible.


Search for what's in your heart. Search for what you are, what makes you an individual, and never let anyone or anything get in the way of attaining your dreams.


Congrats Nick, you are truly an inspiration.


Goodnight folks


MASK


http://www.usatoday.com/news/nation/story/2012-06-15/nik-wallenda-niagara-falls-walk/55624724/1



Thursday, March 29, 2012

Have the “Domestic Violence Talk” Sooner Rather Than Later

We often think the most difficult rite of parenting is having the “sex talk” with our children as they mature. Imagery of a parent sweating as he or she begins to tell their teenage son or daughter about the birds and the bees is a common reflection for many. After all, a child reaching that stage in life where relationships start to become complicated carries rewards as well as possible consequences is a mile stone, how they handle it can seem to reflect back on how well we as parents have prepared them.
As important as the “sex talk” may be, the “domestic violence talk” is even more critical. Boys and girls start to discover each other early and it’s not at all uncommon to hear from a sixth grader they are going out with someone, meaning they are considering themselves in a relationship. Who defines for them the roles in a relationship? Where do they learn how to express their feelings to the other person in that relationship?
Very often they model their behavior based upon personal observations and what they see and hear through the media. Unfortunately, all too often what they see and hear is behavior that may be questionable at best. Think about the publicity surrounding the assault on pop star Rihanna by her then boyfriend Chris Brown. She has seemingly forgiven him for punching her in the face and biting her, all so they can work together on a music release that appears to glorifying disrespecting women. One young woman even sent out her twitter message, “I don’t know why Rihanna complained. Chris Brown could beat me anytime he wanted to.”
Television shows like The Real Housewives series, and shows aimed at young people like The Jersey Shore, all seem to send the message that it is okay to be demeaning and abusive to others in a relationship, and that even violent behavior is acceptable.
Thankfully not everyone condones or accepts such misguided publicity. Actress Reese Witherspoon says she’s had the “domestic violence talk” with her two young children. She says, “Parents must educate themselves and their children about social media and what constitutes harassment, what is acceptable and what is not.”
As the Global Ambassador for the Avon Foundation for Women, Reese is clued to the issue of domestic violence and is adamant that we must spread the word that domestic violence is not acceptable and must not be condoned.
“We talk about what is abuse. I think it’s important to talk to our daughters – and our sons – in order to educate them at an early age about what’s appropriate and what is absolutely not acceptable,” she adds. The Academy Award winning actress explained that as a mother, it is her responsibility to educate her kids on difficult issues. “We talk about domestic violence and what it means… Although the concept is somewhat foreign to them, they’re starting to understand that this happens to families in our country and all throughout the world.”
 And so we ask you to follow the example of Reese Witherspoon, and encourage every parent to take the time to talk to their children about relationships they hear about through the media, good and bad alike. Help your children understand appropriate and inappropriate behavior and language. Give them a better understanding so when it’s their time to make decisions about entering a relationship, they’ll make a good, safe choice.
Her Own Words – A Child Talks About Her Experience
Love Shouldn’t Hurt
Many memories have had a deep and significant effect on my life, but one stands out in particular as important for other people to know. While most of it I gathered from hearing my family tell it over and over again, it bestowed upon me a vital idea that I personally believe everybody should know.
My introduction to violence prevention occurred when I was only a young child, still in preschool. I was playing and having fun, minding my own business, when a boy, Jake, accidently knocked into me, causing me to tumble to the ground. The teacher, Miss Lola, made Jake apologize to me, as well as retrieve an ice pack and hug me. It turned out the boy enjoyed doing this, so every single day afterwards, he would hit me or knock me down, just so he could retrieve the ice pack and hug me. While there were no cruel intentions behind it, I still did not like being hit, so I asked Miss Lola why Jake kept hurting me. She told me it was because he loved me.
Shortly afterwards, my mother found herself putting a snowsuit on me, preparing me to
Do we REALLY want our children to believe this is how they should see their relationship roles?
face the cold outdoors. I didn’t particularly like it, so I whacked her with my fist. She then paused and explained to me that in this household we don’t hit. She told me that no one ever hits me, and therefore I shouldn’t hit her, or anyone else. I then confessed that someone did hit me. She promptly freaked out, afraid that I was being abused by some grown adult. She asked me who it was, and I told her that Jake had hit me. She was relieved, but still upset. She asked me why Jake hit me, and I gave her the same explanation that Miss Lola gave me: Jake loved me.
Overall, this memory from my early childhood gave me a very significant understanding of the world, about love, hurt, and the messages that are sent to young children about these topics. I think it is important for this memory to be shared because all people should understand the distinguishing factors between love and abuse. Everybody should have love, but no one should be hurt by it.
Jess R. 
Age 14
Grade 8
 
Some Warning Signs of an Abusive Relationship
  • Tells you he/she cannot live without you
  • Threatens to hurt him/herself or others if you break up
  • Has severe mood swings or frequent bad moods
  • Wants the relationship to get too serious too quickly
  • Believes in rigid gender roles
  • Dislikes your parents and friends
  • Disrespects his/her mother or generally treats his/her parents badly
  • Brags about mistreating other people
  • Has trouble controlling his/her temper
  • Uses drugs and alcohol (not just experimentation)
  • Blames others for his/her problems or feelings

Monday, March 26, 2012

Teens Start Talking (NYAB members)

National Youth Advisory Board members from Loveisrespect.org and Break the Cycle attended a conference in Texas back in January. There, a few members participated in a "truth booth" where they shared their thoughts on questions regarding relationship abuse.

Here is the video!


Teens Start Talking from BeSmartBeWell.com on Vimeo.

They did an awesome job. :)

MASK Theater

Sunday, March 25, 2012

The Signs of Abuse (PSA) [RE-SHOT/RE-EDITED!]

Hey everyone!

Thanks to Premiere Media of Hillsborough, MASK was able to re-shoot in HD quality the PSA that we made (on an IPhone!) for the Somerset Someys back in December. In it we highlighted The Resource Center of Somerset.

This video will be showed to all of Patriot's stadium on May 17th. One of our "lucky" members will also be throwing the starting pitch... oh boy. 

Anyways, here's the video! (From our YouTube channel)


Let us know what you think! 

MASK Theater




Thursday, February 2, 2012

February : Teen Dating Violence Prevention Month

VAWA Update: Senate Judiciary Passes S. 1925

Thanks to all of our valiant VAWA Supporters, including MASK Theater- S.1925, the Leahy/Crapo bill to Reauthorize the Violence Against Women Act, was passed by the Senate Judiciary Committee on Thursday, Feb.2! 

In the past few days, we’ve called upon activists in every state to help send a strong message to the Senate about the importance of this bill and the various provisions in it.  And you did it – key Senate offices were flooded with calls making it clear that ALL of the VAWA bill is important.  You really made a difference!
What exactly passed?
As expected, Senator Leahy offered a “Manager’s Amendment” which replaced the original S.1925 and the new version was accepted by unanimous consent.   The new version  included modifications in response to requests from other Senators and from the field.  It retained key provisions such as the pieces addressing tribal jurisdiction, underserved populations, communities of color and immigration and so many more!  
There were other amendments offered as well.  Two that passed were an amendment increasing penalties for a third offense of drunk driving and a controversial amendment to instate a mandatory minimum of 5 years in prison for aggravated sexual assault.
What now?
Our efforts to move VAWA along must continue.  We are still asking local, state  and national organizations and agencies to sign on to the letter in support of VAWA. While the dramatic size and breadth of the list of supporters is impressive, we want to continue to add to it.  Reach out to others in your community and encourage their support.  The current version of the letter can be viewed in the VAWA Supporters Section of 4vawa.org. To add your organization or agency to the list of supporters please email us at reauthorizeVAWA@gmail.com.  
We are also continuing to ask Senators to sign on to co-sponsor S.1925.  Your calls are working!  
 Thank you!

National Teen Dating Violence Awareness and Prevention Month, 2012

The White House
Office of the Press Secretary

Presidential Proclamation -- National Teen Dating Violence Awareness and Prevention Month, 2012

NATIONAL TEEN DATING VIOLENCE AWARENESS AND PREVENTION MONTH, 2012
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BY THE PRESIDENT OF THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA
A PROCLAMATION
     In America, an alarming number of young people experience physical, sexual, or emotional abuse as part of a controlling or violent dating relationship.  The consequences of dating violence -- spanning impaired development to physical harm -- pose a threat to the health and well-being of teens across our Nation, and it is essential we come together to break the cycle of violence that burdens too many of our sons and daughters.  This month, we recommit to providing critical support and services for victims of dating violence and empowering teens with the tools to cultivate healthy, respectful relationships.
     Though we have made substantial progress in the fight to reduce violence against women, dating violence remains a reality for millions of young people.  In a 12 month period, one in 10 high school students nationwide reported they were physically hurt on purpose by their boyfriend or girlfriend, and still more experienced verbal or emotional abuse like shaming, bullying, or threats.  Depression, substance abuse, and health complications are among the long-term impacts that may follow in the wake of an abusive relationship.  Tragically, dating violence can also lead to other forms of violence, including sexual assault.  These outcomes are unacceptable, and we must do more to prevent dating violence and ensure the health and safety of our Nation's youth.
     The path toward a future free of dating violence begins with awareness.  As part of my Administration's ongoing commitment to engaging individuals and communities in this important work, Vice President Joe Biden launched the1is2many initiative last September.  In concert with awareness programs occurring across Federal agencies, the initiative calls on young men and women to take action against dating violence and sexual assault and help advance public understanding of the realities of abuse.  The National Dating Abuse Helpline offers information and support to individuals struggling with unhealthy relationships.  For immediate and confidential advice and referrals, I encourage concerned teens and their loved ones to contact the Helpline at 1-866-331-9474, text "loveis" to 77054, or visit: www.LoveIsRespect.org.  Additional resources are available at:  www.CDC.gov/features/datingviolence.
     My Administration continues to promote new and proven strategies to target teen dating violence.  Last November, we announced the winners of the Apps Against Abuse technology challenge, concluding a national competition to develop innovative new tools that will empower young Americans and help prevent dating violence and sexual assault.  As we move forward, we will continue to collaborate with both public and private partners to bring new violence prevention strategies to individuals and communities across our Nation.  To learn more, visit: www.WhiteHouse.gov/1is2many.
     Reducing violence against teens and young adults is an important task for all of us.  This month, we renew our commitment to breaking the silence about dating abuse and fostering a culture of respect in our neighborhoods, our schools, and our homes.
     NOW, THEREFORE, I, BARACK OBAMA, President of the United States of America, by virtue of the authority vested in me by the Constitution and the laws of the United States, do hereby proclaim February 2012 as National Teen Dating Violence Awareness and Prevention Month.  I call upon all Americans to support efforts in their communities and schools, and in their own families, to empower young people to develop healthy relationships throughout their lives and to engage in activities that prevent and respond to teen dating violence.
     IN WITNESS WHEREOF, I have hereunto set my hand this thirty-first day of January, in the year of our Lord two thousand twelve, and of the Independence of the United States of America the two hundred and thirty-sixth.

BARACK OBAMA

Friday, January 13, 2012

Texting Abuse PSA

*Disclaim any rights to this PSA*


Our group first saw this video at the seminar on the 12th. (See below blogpost) We thought it was funny, but also really accurate in a lot of ways. Check it out--it's just a minute long. :)


Tell us whatchu think :3

Thursday, January 12, 2012

Talking to Teens About Healthy Relationships

Date: Jan 12, 2012
Location: 40 North Bridge Street, Somerville, NJ

MASK attended a seminar tonight on teen dating violence. It was a workshop geared toward parents and health professionals. It covered what one needed to know about the subject to talk to their teenagers.

The seminar was run by Shannon Evans, MSW, LCSW at the Women's Health & Counseling Center. 18 MASK members and a few of our parents made it to this event. It was an amazing group-building and educational experience. Shannon did a wonderful job of keeping discussion flowing and allowing plenty of opportunity for Q&A and interactive audience participation.

After asking a few of the members if they would attend another similar seminar in the future their responses were very positive- "Absolutely" and saying it was "fun and beneficial to the work we are doing" feeling it "helped them a lot."

MASK has been meeting every week working on our presentations for classroom sized audiences. We want to begin these presentations in February (Appropriately, for Teen Dating Violence Awareness and Prevention Month). Attending amazing seminars like this one tonight are very helpful to meeting this deadline and increasing the effectiveness of our presentation's influence.

Hope you have a wonderful long weekend, everyone.

And please please comment or email us if you have any stories, comments, questions you want to share with us. Or if you need info on how to get involved and/or educated in the subject for yourself!

Peace&Love

~the MASK group~